It's the Weekend

IT’S The Weekend; now for some it’s a time to relax after 5 hard days of work and most of us look for this to come. However, in my house we look for it to end; as you will see the weekend for us bring the unknown. As of the request from Gal’s Wartowski and Groszek Zion mother picks him up at 8 am on sat and drops him off at 5:30 on Sunday. Now this is 33 ½ hours that this 2 year old child will not eat, will not get the love and protection that a 2 year old should. And, said to say it could just be the last 33 ½ hour of his short life.
Let’s deal with the facts and stop being a society that feels just because a woman has a child that this gives her some power to make this child hers to own and throw away when she wants. A lot of people have stated that since Joyce is the mother then she can do what she wants with Zion. When a woman carries a child during those 9 months she can abort that child at any chance she wants. Under the law once that child is born she can not just toss the baby into the trash; or just leave the child anywhere. However; we still give children this property tag that a mother can do what ever she feels like to the child.
Zion’s mother Joyce did her best not to bring him into this world. She asked and begged for the money to terminate Zion; however she came up with some plan that if she turns her self into DCFS as a runaway who was Pregnant; that the state of IL would give her an abortion; and when they placed her into a hospital she figure that they would do it for her; she just never knew that Christian hospitals don't do that; nor will the sate of IL. Now once it was made clear to her that her wishes for ending her pregnancy were not going to come through, Joyce left the hospital to go party; never thinking about the child she was carrying.
Now, once Zion was brought into this world; Joyce was begging for anyone to take him. She just wanted to rid herself of this unwanted gift. After no taker (as you see Joyce was a ward of the state not Zion; so all he came with was love) my family came into the picture just before DCFS could step in and make Zion a ward. Joyce had 2 cases of child endangerment charges calls placed on her and number 3 would have led to this. So we took in Zion at 6 months; Zion was a very weak baby that needed a lot of love, care and medical needs; as Joyce had only taking him to the doctor once since he was born.
When my family stepped in; Joyce begged my family to keep Zion; she just wanted to rid herself of him and we did this and there were a lot of ups and down dealing with Joyce; however she made it very clear that she did not want Zion; up until he became a chicken that lay golden eggs.
Once Joyce was educated on what all (little to me and most) DCFS and the state of IL would give a women to bring a child into DCFS Joyce decided to cash in on this pay day. So the case took longer than normal, one whole year and my wife were giving full and legal Guardianship of Zion June 24th 2008; there was not any contact from Joyce about Zion. However, it was more about how Joyce wanted to do things to my family; And once I was forced to obtain an Order of Protection on Joyce; she was once more Educated on the fact that Aunt Martha’s would supply her with a so called dream team of attorneys to help her fight all her cases and help her get Zion back so that she could one day turn Zion over to DCFS. So Joyce with the help of her team filed a motion to get Zion back in August 2008; less then 2 month after legal guardianship was granted.
Now, the fight in Joyce was one for Life as she needs Zion now. She will be 20 this year and unless she can keep Zion she might be aged out of DCFS and have to do what most of us do everyday and that’s get a Job. Also, CVLS pick a new GAL and supervisors Wartowski and Groszek for Zion. However, these new GAL has made it clear that they are on Joyce side not Zion. They believe it’s their job to help save this poor black woman and give her every chance in the world. These women have been so blind that they have over looked drugs use and gang activity around Zion while he is in his mother’s care., and just so that they can go home at night and feel that they have done some good in the world and Joyce will get her hours needed to get her rent paid.
The same Judge in the probate case this time spends more time looking and talking about Joyce’s ward of the state case and how Joyce is doing so well (no job, no school or trade); it makes me wonder does Joyce still have her same GAL that was the brother-in-law to the Judge. The Judge talks about things that have never been talked about in the probate case and the Judge has said that she has not even read the file in this probate case. The Judge has said that all she knows about this case was that Joyce cried on June 24th 2008 when she lost her son (meal ticket). The Judge has been to busy reading or getting information on Joyce’s DCFS case and how important it is for Joyce to get Zion back for that case and how it the job and duty of the guardian to make this happen so that Joyce can move on in her DCFS case.
So when I talk about how the weekend for my family are not good ones; we know at any minute or second one thing in Joyce’s gang life can take the life of Zion. I would love to ask the Judge and Zion Gal’s Wartowski and Groszek would they trust Joyce to keep their children over the weekend; and they would say NO! So why should we trust her to keep the child that we love. Does it make them sleep better knowing that since Joyce was not able to get rid of Zion before he came into this world that Joyce she should be giving a second chance to take his life? As GAL Groszek said in court her job at this point is not to worry about Zion, however to make sure the Joyce has every chance to spent time with him.
The 2nd time around for this case has taking a turn for the worst and the new GAL’s Wartowski and Groszek keep saying that since I won't back off and keep talking and blogging about these issue I'm going to get on their bad side; well, I guess it better to be on their bad side in life then watch this child loose his life at the hands of Joyce’s action. So for every person that feels that a child belongs to the mother; don't get upset when these so called mothers take the child’s life. It’s like an old saying; I brought that child into the world, so I can take the child out like Andrea Yates, Dena Schlosser and Rozlynn Rodgers who took their child’s life so that she can go out on the weekend.
So as everyone enjoy the weekend and have fun in the sun; just think about what we all did when we were 19 (with out children for some) in the summer time on the weekend and know that Joyce has a 2 year old boy that she never wanted living a life of gangs and drugs and figure what she will be doing. Joyce never ask to get Zion every weekend, she wanted ever other weekend, however GAL’s Wartowski and Groszek asked don't you want him ever weekend and she just said I guess so. So these next 33 ½ hour in my family life are ones on eggs shell as we look for Sunday 5:31 PM to come.
At the age of 2 ½ Zion has gone from spending his weekend getting books to read, spending time out back and going to see his favorite movies and eating; to becoming a man growing up in a life of drugs, folks and GD’s. The Judge and CVLS Wartowski and Groszek are alright with this; why not it’s her child (and not their) as they said. Joyce’s attorney have just set back and let the GAL’s in this case do everything, they know the life that Joyce lives and they figure that when this bomb goes off they can just point the finger at the Judge in this case and GAL’s Wartowski and Groszek

If you would like to read more about my 2 years in hell with DCFS please look at my blog http://mahdee2yearinhellwithdcfs.blogspot.com/ And reach one and teach one; so please give these people a call and ask the GAL to remove themselves from Zion case and Call DCFS directors and ask him to stop making these young women keep these children that they don't want just to stay in DCFS. And call Govern Quinn and ask him why he wants us to pay more so that the state can waste more on cases like this. Aunt Martha’s has spent about 30k just on this and if you did not know the money comes from the tax payer in State of IL.
CVLS 100 N. LaSalle St. Suite 900 Chicago IL 60602 (312-332-1624) Director of DCFS Mr. McEwen 312-814-1445 or 312-814-4111 Fax# 312 814-1888
Governor Pat Quinn 312-814-2121
Senator Toi W. Hutchinson (708) 756-0882 (708) 756-0885 FAX
Representative Anthony DeLuca (708) 672-0200 (708) 672-0700 FAX
Representative Lisa M. Dugan (815) 939-1983 (815) 939-0081 FAX

You can look up yours representative at http://www.ilga.gov/
Aunt Martha's (708) 747-7100 (this is who started all this)
The next court date is on 7/2/09 at the Daley Center Rm. 1806 at 1:30 pm Judge McGury (lets bring in the light)